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Achievement vs. Process: Finding Joy in the Process.
Have you ever felt that achieving your goals left you feeling more empty than fulfilled? This summer, I learned that achievement can be...
Oct 7, 20242 min read


Navigating Beauty Standards: How Makeup Impacts Confidence and Femininity for Black Women
While waiting for me to finish putting on my makeup, a friend asked me, “Why do you wear makeup? It seems like more time than it’s...
Aug 29, 20244 min read


The Pitfalls of Pursuing your Passion
'Follow your passions and you’ll never work a day in your life’ they said. It's generally good advice. But lately, that’s not how I have...
Jul 8, 20242 min read


Word of the Year: Vulnerability
A friend of mine asked if I have a word of the year. I had never heard about it before then, but I am so glad I know about it now. My...
Jan 23, 20242 min read


27 Lessons For 27 Years
Whenever someone has a birthday, I ask them to give as many lessons as years lived in their lives. What I have is a mix of a few lessons...
Dec 27, 20233 min read


All I Want for Christmas
Coming home on Christmas break always brings a confluence of two feelings for me: reconnection and reflection. This is a reflection on...
Dec 23, 20233 min read


A Life Ever After: With Abba
A while back I wrote a blog post about Robbie Williams' “Feel.” To me the song gives a helpful phrase for the kind of life I want to...
Nov 30, 20233 min read


Letters I wrote: To Janet
This is an email I wrote to my therapist. She said something in our session that went against my experiential knowledge and pushed...
Oct 23, 20234 min read


On Perfect Nails and Class Performance
A reflection on painting my nails which takes up about 20% of my week For years, I kept myself from indulging in beautiful nails (and...
Sep 12, 20234 min read


A Life Ever After
This might turn into a little series were I break down and explore the particular impact that songs have had on me. I remember listening...
Jul 23, 20234 min read

A life in Song: Tina Turner
These are my favourite songs and the moments they make me think of. I, along with millions of people are saddened by Tina Turner’s death...
Jun 7, 20233 min read


Battling Racism with Beauty, Make-up and Skincare
Why the 'Black Don’t Crack' myth is harmful & how A-Beauty helps reclaim dignity without objectifying blackness. #BlackSkinCare #ABeauty
May 30, 20233 min read


Re-thinking Envy with Lori Gotleib
On following envy and creating a personal archive Writing on envy feels like a surprising appropriate way to open up my first blog post....
May 11, 20233 min read
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